Spring Break

I made it through the beyond slow week finally! Five days away from the club is my birthday gift to myself . I have no clue what I will do, but I am done being part of the overworked and under appreciated at the club. I put my shine on this weekend and I have put my time in at this new club. It was time to cash in on my shine.

The two questions that made me aware I did my job well enough to make the other dancers think...

Friday night, as I walked into the dressing room at the end of the night a girl asked me, "How did you keep that customer in the Vip so long without getting naked?" All the other girls in the dressing room perked their ears up in hope that I would spill my guts, so I just coyly smiled and said nothing. Why would I want to help them at all with the knowledge and wisdom it took me years of work to acquire?

Especially when I know they are forced to be nice, at least to my face. And they have not made my transition easy. Of course, there are a few exceptions I can count on one hand. Those girls who are nice/kind I have shared some knowledge and wisdom with to make their career easier. My positive ripple effect!

Saturday night, as I walked into the dressing room to start my night, a girl asked another dancer if she thought it was appropriate for other girls to ask her regulars for dances. She has not said anything directly to me, passive aggressive is the way of being there, but I know she was referring to the regular customer that I entertain when she is busy giving dances to other customers. With that question she was basically asking for reassurance that her time is worth more then my own, because she has worked at this club longer and known this customer longer.

If a dancer knew how to manage her time appropriately with regular customers this would not happen.

~Zi-Fi

P.S. I also learned that the girls prefer to bite their noses to spit their faces. I asked the manager to be informed on proper etiquette for taking a customer to the Vip  room from the stage, after my set. Shockingly, I found out the girls at this club do no appreciate it when I tell a guy to wait at the stage for me, while I get dressed and situated. This would enable the customer to tip them while I prepared. Apparently this is frowned upon. I was shocked!

Whoever knew making others a few more dollars would be rude?

Mind blowing Right!