Fantasy Land

Dancers have to take days off from the club and the whole strip club industry/scene. We need to reconnect with our own personal realities. It is just plain necessary for sanity purposes. In the clubs we live in such a fake reality/fantasy land

The majority of strip club customers just visit. Most of the time it is a party to them. We work there, so it is not a party to us. People do not understand that dancing is a very emotionally and physically draining job.  We manipulate men and spin from a pole, in stilettos, naked.

Playing mental and emotional chess with drunken customers is an art form. But then, on the other hand, being a good performer on stage is also an art form. Then there is the looks part. It is important to look healthy! The better a dancer looks the more money she will make. So it means giving up cookies at times. This is just  like any other industry, be the best. Therefore, it becomes a mixture of the many variables. One of the most interesting things I have ever done. Plus, I like to win!

Not many people can have two different personalities and not be crazy...

But wait! I have yet to meet a boring stripper/dancer.

~Zi-Fi

“Wearing a mask wears you out. Faking it is fatiguing. The most exhausting activity is pretending to be what you know you aren’t.”~Rick Warren